Monday, April 14, 2008
Like I said, if one is matured enough to understand the necessity of the particular conversation, UNNECESSARY conflicts are avoidable. However, I guess I was proven wrong.
Everything is jus so simple. It all depends on how u looked at it.
Reply with harshness to the one who stir things up, not the one who sit n listens.
For the one who sits n listens did nothing.
For one to make such harsh remarks/comments truly portrays herself to others she tired. But how many have put a thought to the one who sits and cry silently to herself.
Friends will not be caught in between if there’s no unnecessary “passing of updates to another” thus causing unnecessary conversations which allows 3rd / 4th parties to get affected.
Everyone is starting afresh. However, anyone with the right sense of mind and heart will tends to reminisce and hold back the beautiful memories that were once created. There’s no need for any harshness in forcing anyone to leave ultimately.
Sad to say, there’s no need for a “hope” that it’ll be the last time giving such a speech. For the one who cries silently truly understand your intentions. Therefore, I sincerely appreciate you’ll allow her to leave without any further harshness.
Thou shall probe no further into thee life if above mentioned can be settled peacefully. No one has the abilities to disrupt your mindset. Others can fuck your mind but it’s oneself who make all decisions in regards to heart affairs. So, put off that blame on others for your own doings/decisions
